CODE OF CONDUCT FOR PARENTS
The parent’s role is one of support to the players, coaches and club. Parents should not engage in “coaching” from the sidelines, criticize players, coaches or game officials or try to influence the makeup of the team at any time. Please set the example by exemplifying the highest standards of sportsmanship. Parents participate in a game by watching, cheering and supporting the efforts of ALL participants. Every parent is expected to abide by the following code of conduct.
Parents are not permitted to approach the coach about playing time or on-field issues directly after the completion of any game. Parents are permitted to contact the coach 48 hours after the last game to discuss their child’s playing time or other issues. If the matter cannot be resolved between the coach and the parent, then the DOC can be brought in to help resolve any concerns or issues.
Parents will follow all TCSA rules; respecting at all times the property of others. Parents shall stay current on all financial obligations to TCSA and the team. TCSA’s select program is a full year commitment, running eight to ten months depending on the team.
► When communicating with the coach parents shall avoid “reply all” email chains with concerns and shall call the coach or TCSA directly to discuss such concerns.
► At no time should a parent approach the coach during a game. All parents should stay on the opposite side of the field at all times. No parent should come onto the field for any reason during the game.
► Players have more need for good examples than for criticism. Attempt to relieve the pressure of the competitions, not increase it.
► Applaud good plays by your team and by members of the opposing team.
► Do not openly question an official’s judgments or honesty. Officials are symbols of fair player, integrity and sportsmanship. Officials are not to be approached or confronted during or after the game
► Accept the results of each game. Encourage your child to be gracious in victory, and to see defeat as a learning experience by working towards improvement. Losing is part of a player’s development and can be useful for players to learn about character and discipline among other things.
►The game is for the players not the adults and their participation and enjoyment is the most important element
► Understand that players win and lose games and not coaches. Soccer is a player’s game and always will be. Unlike many sports such as football, baseball and basketball where coaches can have a direct influence on the game with their decisions, soccer is a free-flowing game where the ball and the situation changes frequently. Consequently, soccer coaches have very little influence on the game and the players are the ones that determine the outcome.
► Encourage your players to always play by the rules.
► Parents are expected to have their child on time for training and games.
► They are expected to notify the coach or team representative in each instance in which a player is unable to attend a scheduled team activity or arrive on time.
► Treat coaches, other players and game officials, administrators and opposing fans with respect at all times; regardless of race, sex, creed, or ability.
► Allow the coach to be the only coach. You might be telling your child to do the exact opposite of what the coach has told him or her to do, and this will only frustrate the player and can have a negative affect on their performance.
► Refrain from any activity or conduct that may be detrimental or reflect adversely upon TCSA or its members or programs. NO alcohol, tobacco, or drugs on or near the playing or practice field.
